Silent Killer

When life tows you into the darkest road, insecurity gets the best of you. You yearn for importance. You feel like a ball on the snooker table apprehensive of the hit for reaching down the hole. You start questioning your existence. You conclude your relation with every second person a goof up; mainly you’re a wreck. What you want is for someone to prove how vital your existence is in their life. The insecurity often reaches a level where it’s almost impossible to be sane and you’re aloof from the real world; hence our loved ones fail to pull us out of the gloomy dungeon…

The result of being insecure: You start to think about the beginning, it’s the end, and your life revolves around one decision your insecurity made for you. Insecurity deprives people of their zest of life. We are often ashamed of our insecurities and try to run away but we fail short to realize, faster we run challenging it becomes to handle the depth of insecurity.

Our insecurity develops from how we perceive the world and face the rejection from the society. It ain’t mandatory to be accepted, rejection isn’t the sign of weak. We turn out to be oblivious to the approach of life, instead of zeal and enthusiasm the insecure man chooses to lead it with uncertainty and anxiety. The mind of the insecure man never chooses to not deviate irrespective of anything. The deviation leads to an emotionally wrecked being.

Insecurity is a silent killer to the mind. Every emotion is left crumpled and trashed. There is no cure for insecurity; it’s extremely contagious. As it affects the mind it travels rapidly to the brain, intervening with our sanity. Insecurity is everywhere. One needs to seriously learn to handle it rather than drowning into it. Stop giving up and move on. It’s rude to say but no one cares whether you’re insecure or not. What people require is someone whose in high spirits and cheerful. Agreed everyone goes through the rough phase but facing it and putting it aside is an art that anyone can attain but we choose not to. We prefer suffering; we enjoy the attention and sympathy don’t we? Insecurity will persist in each one of us, only the strong will be able to cast it out and replace with assurance.   

Every Teardrop Is a Waterfall

Tears have a perception of their own. They flow independently but every teardrop has its own story to convey. A story, half the world is oblivious to. We often perceive the wrong notion of why the drops of water are pouring down the eyes. It’s inexplicable to define the depth of emotions and feelings containing in one drop of salty water.

The responsiveness through emotions is a mystery. We laugh until we cry; we have tears of joy as well as fear, sorrow and sadness. Some of us choose to vent out frustration through tears.

As mentioned human emotions have been tangled in a world of their own; difficult to untangle and solve the mystery. At times when words fail to express the overwhelming thoughts, the words heart can’t express tears explain. I deem, cry if it makes you feel better. As for me crying helps me cleanse my body, unburden my heart and composes emptiness within; zilch inside to suppress me further. 

Crying is not for the feeble or for the strong; it’s a way to make yourself feel you, a way to calm yourself down and make the adrenaline rush decrease the pace in the veins. It takes a lot of courage to show the vulnerability of your emotions through tears. This is certainly no weakness.

To conclude …

“He does not weep who does not see” - Victor Hugo.